The Maniacal Rantings of the Urban Crone

Bear witness to the rantings of the Urban Crone as she emparts her wisdom in her own rather quirky way.

Wednesday, January 25, 2012

Law of Attraction and Creating a Vision Board

You plan a huge outdoor event. Caterers, entertainment, and the whole nine yards are perfectly planned right down to the very detail. And you have no plan B. This event needs to go down as exactly planned or your world will end. Then, you start thinking:
“What if it rains?”
“Oh, it’s not going to rain,” You tell yourself.
“But what if it does?” you ask yourself in a worried voice.
“It can’t rain. Not that day. Can it?” you answer, now creating doubt in your mind.
All the way up until that thought entered your mind; it was probably going to be a clear, beautiful day. The moment you thought about rain on that day, you sent that message out into the universe. And the universe said, “Sure, why not?”
The Law of Attraction
This is basically part what the Law of Attraction is, that we attract into our lives whatever we think about, that our most dominant thoughts will always find a way to manifest. So, if you are obsessing over something happening, you are basically inviting it into your life. Walking around complaining how you never have any money and you are always so broke and you can’t pay your bills, is going to bring you more of the same.
The other part of the Law of Attraction equation is that “like will attract like”. If you think positive thought about a situation, you will attract a positive outcome. The same holds true for negative thoughts, which will manifest a negative outcome. So, being focused on a negative possibility for your event, it raining, manifested a negative outcome, it rained. Negative thoughts about your finances will yield negative financial outcomes.
How it works (sort of)
There are many that believe that reality is subjective because it is experiential. If you ask 10 people to give their account of an event, you will get 10 different versions. Are they all wrong? No, because this is how they saw this event unfolding within their own realities. This concept, subjective reality, implies that we create our own reality. The basic premise for the concept of subjective reality is:
P1: There is only one consciousness in your reality.
P2: You are that singular consciousness in your reality.
P3: Everyone and everything within your reality is a projection/creation of your thoughts, your consciousness.
P4: Your intentions are the only intentions in your reality.
Conclusion; your consciousness creates your reality, everything in it and everything that happens in it.
Ok, so I create my own reality. Well then, why can’t I just blink and make things happen? Because, physical reality is a very dense, highly complex thing, more so than say a dream world or a video game. Changes occur at a much slower, gradual rate because reality needs time to calibrate, pave the way for the change to occur. Imagine the chaos if reality changed in much the same way that you change the channels on your TV.
This concept of Subjective reality is really the key to the Law of Attraction. Since we create our own reality, we have the ability to attract what we want into it.
Law of Attraction as a recent concept?
In 2006, the film The Secret created a cult following. The next year, the book based on the movie had the same effect. People in all walks of life were praising this new concept of attracting positive things in their lives through this Law of Attraction. Even Oprah Winfrey was on the bandwagon, making The Secret the topic of several shows, again acting as if the movie and book unearthed some bright new concept. Only, the Law of Attraction isn’t a new concept at all:
New Thought Movement (1904-1910) Thomas Troward, who had a strong influence on the movement, wrote
“The action of the Mind plants that nucleus which, if allowed to grow undisturbed, will eventually attract to itself all the conditions necessary for its manifestation in an outward visible form.”
Theosophical Movement (1915-1930’s) Annie Besant compared her version of the Law of Attraction to gravitation and karma.
In 1937, Israel Regardie wrote his book entitled “The Art of True Healing: A Treatise on the Mechanism of Prayer and the Operation of the Law of Attraction in Nature”.
These are just a few examples of the Law of Attraction prior to The Secret. There are other older examples as the Law of Attraction is prevalent in sympathetic magic that dates back to the stone ages. My point is that the concept is not a new invention at all. And, it is resurrected every so often because it actually works. That is why get rich books are often based on it. In order to make it work for you, you have to understand the rules.
Rules that govern the Law of Attraction:
1. You must assume 100% responsibility for everything you are experiencing in your reality right now – absolutely everything, be it good, bad or craptaculur - then you assume the power to attract what you want into your reality. If you keep telling yourself that it is someone else’s fault, that you didn’t do it, that you have no control over whatever it is, then you are going to attract that situation. This is your reality; own it.
2. Since “like will attract like”, positive thinking will attract a positive outcome. Negative thinking or thoughts that contradict the outcome you desire will affect that outcome. Keep your thoughts positive and positive things will happen.
3. Be clear and specific about what your goal actually is. Take time to think about what it is you really want to happen and establish that as your goal. Make sure this goal is as specific as you can make it. If you want to have extra money every month, and you aren’t specific about how much you would like extra, than it may be that you have 50 cents left at the end of the month. It is extra money but I am sure it wasn’t what you had in mind. Keeping your intended goal clear and specific leave little room for error.
4. Be realistic and willing to do what it takes to reach that goal. You cannot expect to win the lottery if you do not buy a ticket. There has to be a plausible way for your goal to be reached, a road on which these can come into being.
5. Focus on the desired outcome and your path to your goal, not all the problems you are trying to solve with it. If you say, “I need a better job”, you are to “need a better job”, not “get” a better job. Your goal is not a need, want, wish or desire but a declaration of your absolute determination of what the outcome will be. So, a better phrasing in this instance would be “I am going to have a better job by the end of this month.” It is clear, positive and specific, leaving no room for doubt and negativity to creep in. And, everything you do to get that better job attaches to that statement. “I am updating my resume because I am going to get a better job by the end of this month.” “I am doing this and that because I will have a better job by the end of the month.” These are positive statements that keep you moving towards your goal.
6. Beware of self-sabotage. We are our own worst enemies. Since we create our own realities, our fears, doubts and poor self-concepts can really do a number on that reality. When you set your goal, that goal should be your only focus. Thoughts that you can’t do it or don’t deserve it no longer apply because setting that goal means that you have decided that you do deserve it and you can do it. All thoughts to the contrary are, therefore, untrue. Positive thoughts are the key that move you in a positive direction towards your goal, so they are the only thoughts that matter.
7. Finally, set a realistic time frame and be patient. Your reality is a complex system that requires time to create the conditions necessary to manifest your goal. The bigger your goal is, the more change it is going require, which means it will require more time. Big goals require patience and determination since they take the longest. Slow and steady will win the race.
Tools and Methods
Now that we have figured out how the Law of Attraction works, with clear, specific goals and positive thoughts that work to change our own reality, here are some helpful tools to help manifest your goals into being.
The Gratitude Journal:
In this journal, you note everything you are grateful for. Not only are these things you are grateful for from the past and the present, but future things you will be grateful for. By showing gratitude for future blessings you are creating a positive path for them to actually happen. This is not a journal to whine, bitch and complain in. This journal is all about gratitude and sharing positive thoughts, attracting gratifying, positive outcomes.
The Vision Board
Sometimes called a life map or goal map, a Vision Board is a visual representation of the things that you want to have, be or do in your life. These are pictures, writings or representations of the desired outcome of your goals. By bringing your vision of your goals realized from the internal mind to your external reality, you are, in essence, moving your goal from an internal concept to somthing tangible that you can actual see in your physical reality.
These pictures, writings and representation also are positive thoughts and often passionate emotions connected to this going, which attracts positive, passion-charged energy towards your goal, working much the way an amplifier works with a guitar. It ramps up the energy that you and the universe put towards this goal, making it more likely to come into being.
It also works to program your brain in that it tunes your brain into the external representations of your goal, helping you mover closer to your goal. Images and symbols are the language of the brain, especially our subconscious minds, which is where our instincts and motivations to attain our basic desires reside. These images on your Vision board are symbols of your goal/positive outcome, which your subconscious mind sees and turns into one of those basic desires your subconscious mind moves you towards, even if you may not even realize it.  So, if your subconscious and conscious mind are on the same page, working towards a specific goal/positive outcome, how could your possibly not succeed?
A well designed, successful Vision Board should be visual, with as many pictures, words and phrases as possible that represent your goal. It should also be emotional, evoking a positive emotional response that makes you happy and charged with passion to achieve your goal. It should also be placed in a location where you will see it often as your subconscious mind will need maximum exposure to it to keep that part of your mind on board with your goal and moving you that much quicker to a positive outcome.
Your Vision Board does not need to be out in a location where everyone can see it if you don’t want it to be, just make sure you look at it several times a day. I have seen them on the freezer door of a refrigerator, the driver side sun visor of a car and the inside of a medicine closet. One handy trick that is really effective is to take a picture from your cell phone camera or digital camera and make it the screen saver or home page of your cell phone. It can be as simple or elaborate as you like, as big or as small. The only limit on this is your own imagination.
*You will want something to mount your pictures onto something. Foam board or a piece of cardboard will work best as it will give you something solid to hang or place where you want it. It can be as big or small as you like it.
*Pictures, word and phrase, or anything else that represents your goal. These can be printed off the internet, clipped out of a magazines or books, or even pictures you have taken yourself. The only limit here is, again, your own imagination and creativity.
*Double-sided tape, glue or rubber cement and scissors to get the ball rolling.
*Anything else you would like to use to decorate your board with.
*A clearly defined goal, whether it is a new career, changing bad habits, or just being happy.
Creating the board
Step 1: First, just cut out all sorts of pictures, images, words and phrases that appeal to you or you feel apply to the theme or goal of your vision board.  Don’t judge your choices.  Just trust your instincts.
Step 2: Start laying everything you are using out on your board, following your instincts on this as there is no right or wrong. Make sure you have placed everything as you want it before you start gluing as there is no going back.
Step 3: Glue everything onto the board. Then, start placing words either phrases taken from magazines or you can paint or write the words with markers, glitter pens (from fun, informal) or print from your computer, for a more serious. Add writing, if you want. You can paint it on, or write words with markers or glitter pens (for a more fun, informal board) or with computer printed text (or a more serious, business approach).
Step 4: Sometimes people like to put a happy picture of themselves in the center of this board.  This is optional but can really energize the vision and heighten the impact of the board.
Step 5: Place the vision board somewhere where you see it often. 
If you are using your fridge as your vision board, you can use small decorative magnets to hold the pictures in place. You can even swap pictures out as your goal changes or you find something you like better. This is ideal for short term goals. You can also use bulletin boards with decorative thumb tacks, old poster frames or large picture frames that need a new purpose, or even a gorgeous 8"x10" frame that you discovered at a thrift store. It is up to you how big or small, how simple or elaborate you vision board is. Here are Four Types of Vision Boards to give you some hints:
1. Focused:
For this board, you will have a specific thing they want to change or manifest in their life, even breaking a specific bad habit.
This board focuses on a clear and certain goal and attracts powerful specific changes to their life.
2. Themed:
This vision board is ideal for a specific event (like a wedding) or area of your life.
You can also use a vision board to show what you want to an interior designer or architect.
3. Business:
For a specific business project or proposal, even to work towards a promotion or change careers to a job you want.
4. Open-minded:
You know you want to change something about your life but you aren’t sure what. Group together pictures and words that reflect what would make a happy life for you.
This is also great for those who are depressed. On this board, you are designing your ideal life.
Once you have designed this board, you can always make another one later with a more specific goal in mind. This board will get your mind thinking as well as attracting positive change into your life.
Here are a few pictures of vision boards I found on line.
You can do a google search and find tons of pictures to give you ideas. There are even websites that will help you create and maintain a vision board, some free and some not. Make sure you read all the details before participating in these as some have expensive hidden fees.
If you create your own reality through your own thoughts, then there is no reason why it can’t be the creator of a positive reality that attracts to it all the positive things you can have in life. The Law of Attraction can work for anyone willing to take command of their life and willing to let go of all the negative programming we have inflicted upon ourselves. Positive thinking begets a positive outcome every time.
Urban Crone

Monday, January 9, 2012

The Crone's Suggested Reading List

Off to the side of my Blog, you will see that I have a suggested reading list. These books are ones I have read myself over the years and feel that they offer a fair amount of knowledge and understanding of their respective subjects. They are authors I respect for what they know and their willingness to share their knowledge with the community at large. I will go through from time to time and edit the list, removing books that I have changed my mind about or that I have found a better source for that topic, as well as adding other books that I feel really have alot to offer, and are worth the time to read.
You will also notice that the list is sectioned off by "beginner", "advanced" and "reference". My reasoning for this is that there are some books that are great, just not right for someone first starting their path. And, there are some books that should be read by all beginners so that they understand what they are getting themselves into.
There are two books in particular, one by Marion Green and one by Isaac Bonewits, that I label as one to be read first and second. These books really give not only a fantastic overview of Wicca and Witchcraft, but a realistic one. It is not uncommon for beginners to read a book full of light, glitter and fluff, and expect for Wicca to be just that. These books prevent that misconception, and put one's feet heading in a good direction.
There is nothing wrong, by the way, with buying used books from places like Halfprice Books,, and the like. These are books people don't want anymore and you are not only doing them a favor by taking them off of someone's hands (at a nice price), but you are doing your share for the environment. Ebooks are way cool as well, as long as you get them from a reputable site that has the author's permission. Pirated copies of books are like stealing because you are not compensating the author for their time and effort.
Finally, these books are like me giving my opinion. I am suggesting these. I am not saying that every Wiccan or Pagan should read these books or they suck. When people come to me and ask me for reading material, these are the books I point them to. I hope they help you on your spiritual journey.

Sunday, January 8, 2012

Magical Living Space

Here are my notes from an event I did about creating Magical Living Space. I felt as though this was timely as people are going through and getting rid of the old to make way for the new, vowing to make this new year one full of positive energy and it has been freakishly nice enough to do some deep house cleansing.

These are my notes from the “Magical Living Space” Meetup that was held for September 2011. I did not intend to create a workshop out of this so please keep that in mind as you read through. I only had notes and an outline with me that evening when I presented this. I will try to fill in as much information as I can for you. I did change how I handled “center” since I found a better picture and a bit more information to share (More on that further in).

This process is how I go about setting up my own personal space where I live. It makes a huge difference because it really works to create a positive environment and invites positive things into your life. I can also really tell when things are not set up right as things tend to shift within my life. Another benefit is that when I have it in place, I do not have to cleanse my space as much, it keeps me in the habit of keeping things picked up and in order, and makes it a lot easier to pull up a circle whenever I choose.

This is not something that can be done overnight or even just in one whole day. It is a process that is more emotionally complicated than it is anything else, as you will see. I hope this is helpful to all of those who have requested this.

Sacred space is not just reserved for the Circle. It is possible to turn your home into a sort of sacred space as a whole, not only for the purpose of protection but actually turn your home into a Magical Energy Machine, pulling positive energy in while filtering and processing negative energy out. This is about creating a positive, consistent flow of energy as well as making it so negative vibrations have no place to take root.

Unblock the Flow:

The first step in creating your magical sacred space is to clear the air. This is done by:

1. Go room by room, moving counter-clockwise, and smudge, imagining the dark, negative energy dissipating and positive light filling the space.

2. You may use whatever you like to smudge, be it sage, or any other purifying or cleansing incense blend.

3. Make sure you are stopping at every corner and allow the smoke to rise up all the way to the ceiling.

4. Once you have finished, you can light a white candle in each room as you go and ask for light, love and guidance in cleansing and clearing your space, or you can move clockwise through each room with more sage or incense that creates a positive vibe, inviting light and love into the space. Move from bottom floor to top in a clockwise fashion.

** If you cannot burn any incense or use any type of scented oil or anything of the like:

Go from room to room, moving counter-clockwise, with a broom or feather duster. Imagine you are gathering all the dark, negative energy with your broom/duster as you move. You can either open the window and “push” the energy out the window, or move the energy with you and “push” it out the door. This is sort of a very simplified form of Swifting, the purposeful moving of energy as a means of cleansing, and takes quite a bit of focus to do. I suggest moving floor by floor, starting on the top most floors and moving counter-clockwise downwards, opening a window or door in each room or on each floor to push the energy out. You will need to be complete focused so do it alone and turn off your phone.

When you have finished this, set your tools outside (they will need to be cleansed by sunlight or moonlight afterwards). Then, you can light an unscented white candle in each room and invite light, love and guidance back in, or move from room to room in a clockwise motion to “pull” light and love through the space, from the bottom floor upward.


The next step in creating your magical sacred space is to declutter. Part of creating a magical living space is creating a space in which energy flows freely and in a positive manner. Magical energy is like electricity. A current must run from its source to its destination in an uninterrupted flow. If the flow is interrupted, there will be no power where it needs to be. The exact same thing holds true for positive magical energy. What is worse, a cluttered environment is a breeding ground for negative vibrations to gather and “nest”.

In order to create your magical space, you are going to need to:

Go through Papers:

Papers create an amazing amount of clutter in our lives. We have tons of it coming into our house every single day.

1. Mail

a) Should be dealt with as soon as it comes inside.

b) Throw out junk mail,

c) File any important information (bank statements, tax forms, insurance information etc…) in files specifically created for them.

d) Throw out bills that have already been paid.

2. School papers:

a) Newsletters should be read immediately, important dates noted on a Family Calendar and then thrown out.

b) Save a few key pieces for each child in a large tote with their name on it and throw out the rest. You really do not have to save everything. This way, you will have one tote full of things that are special and meaningful, like an amazing test or essay and a wonderful piece of artwork, instead of a huge pile of junk.

3. Read the Newspaper and then recycle it. Do not let them stack up!! Better still, cancel your subscription and read online newspapers. They save trees and don’t stack up!

4. Magazines:

a) Read it.

b) Cut out or copy any recipes into a cookbook (loose leaf binders are great for this).

c) Cut out any articles that inspire you, or you find useful (another binder as well)

d) There really is no longer a need to save magazines (with the internet) unless they depict monumental occasions, like the death of an icon or like the election of President Obama. In this case, have one tote devoted to all of these very special magazines (not separated by subject but all in one) and be done with it.

e) then, either pass it on or recycle it. Some magazines have on line websites now that are just as good as the magazine. Local libraries also have copies of some magazines as well. Both of these options can save you clutter and money!

5. Books:

a) Look for duplicates and donate those you have extra copies of to a local lending library or goodwill.

b) Look for books that share similar ideas and information. Some authors write books repeating the same information in different ways over and over again. Figure out the best version and pass on the other copies.

c) Get rid of books that you will never read, or you read and thought they were crap. Pass them on.

d) Recycle books with missing pages.

e) Make sure you have shelf space for the books you have. You can use more than one bookshelf but make sure you have someplace to put all of them.

f) While they do not have to be in alphabetical order or anything like that, bookshelves should at least be neat. I try and section my books out by what they are (Fiction, Wicca, Herbs, Crystals, Tarot, etc). It makes it easier to find what I need when I need it.

Go Through Clothes and Shoes:

We have a strange habit of holding on to things we can no longer wear. Letting go of these things can allow us to let go of the negative energy we may attach to them as well as inviting the possibility of new positive things into our lives. This process applies to all members of the household, not just you, and goes for shoes, coats, clothes and anything else that is worn.

1. If it does not fit, get rid of it. Do not torture yourself by saving tiny clothes you may never get back into. It only serves as a reminder that you are not what you think you should be. Get rid of it and get something that reflects liking who you are.

2. Kids clothes that are in good shape should be passed on to a younger sibling, cousin, friend, or to a local charity. NEVER pass on shoes as it can affect a child’s foot growth and walking pattern.

3. Only save baby clothes if you plan on having a baby with the next year or so. Otherwise, save a few cute things and pass it on! This goes for other baby items as well except for cribs, which are a huge expense.

4. Shoes should not become so numerous that they get out of hand. I know people like shoes but they don’t need them by the hundreds. Be reasonable and practical about what you keep and what you can pass on.

5. All winter/summer apparel should be examined prior to packing it away for the season, and only pack it away if it is going to be useable next year. Create large totes with lids for each family member and store all of it neatly in bottom closet or in the basement/attic of your place. Hats, scarves and gloves should be stored neatly in totes as well. Winter coats can be stored hanging in coat bags or large trash bags.

6. Dress clothing should only be kept if it will be worn again. This includes bridesmaid and dresses for dances like prom or homecoming. There are plenty of consignment shops that will resell your items for you if you would like to recoup some of your investment, as well as Craig’s List. Otherwise, donate it and let someone else enjoy it.

The Dreaded Toys

Whether you are a child or an adult, there are things in your life that you accumulate that give you happiness and pleasure only without serving some really practical purpose. These things are called Toys, and they need to be dealt with.

1. Children’s Toys:

a) Make sure each child has one large bin and one small bookshelf to put their stuff away in/on.

b) Sort toys at least twice a year, throwing out all broken toys. I liked doing this like in May and just before Christmas.

c) Create a “goodbye” bin in a secret place. Slip toys into this bin that you notice your child no longer plays with or has left lying around a lot, without telling the child. If the child doesn’t ask for it within a few weeks, it would be safe to pass it on to charity.

d) Game systems (Game cubes, Nintendo’s, Play stations, etc) should be stored neatly and the games kept in their cases or in a cd case to prevent damage. Games, controllers and systems that no longer work should be discarded.

2. Grown-up toys:

Grown-up toys are things we buy for ourselves that we do not need and offer no practical value to our universes.

a) Electronic that do not work, including TV’s, MP3 players, Stereos, DVD players, etc should be discarded.

b) Look through your DVD’s and see if you have duplicates. Get rid of any damaged discs or duplicates. They should also be neatly stored. You can get a large CD case and store them this way as well. Takes up less space this way.

c) If you have an MP3 player, download you favorite CD’s and pack away the rest. The only reason I say not to get rid of them completely (unless they are damaged) is that older ones can be hard to replace.

d) If you never use your workout equipment and it is just too large for your space, sell it. You can always join a gym so you can work out with friends. Large workout equipment is only practical if you have a room you can dedicate it to. Otherwise, it is clutter.

e) Sports equipment that you never use needs to be donated to someone who will use it or sold.

The Miscellaneous Stuff:

Look around your space and see what is there, sitting on tables, bookcases, shelves, etc. what do these things say about who you are? Is this the message you want to put out to the universe? Do these things invite the things into your life that you want? Why do you have these things?

The things around you should create positive emotions and vibrations, therefore inviting positive energy into your life and keeping that flowing. Too many things, too much clutter can cause not only blockages of energy, as discussed earlier, but can also breed negative energy and vibrations. Think carefully through it. If you get stuck, light a candle and ask the Divine Spirit for guidance in sorting through all of it.

1. Anything that is broken should be repaired or discarded, including furniture and home d├ęcor. Broken things represent broken and negative energy.

2. If the item is small and holds sentimental value to you, create a tote that you can pack it away in. You should really not have more than one tote of sentimental things per member of the household (school stuff is separate). These totes can hold photos, items, baby clothes, etc that have special meaning.

3. Dead plants and dried flowers have to go because they drain energy. If you have a sentimental item, like a dried flower or wedding bouquet, put it in a glass jar and place it in your sentimental tote or someplace that would be appropriate with the meaning behind the item (more on that later).

4. Pictures of people who carry or give off negative emotion or energy need to be put up or discarded. Items associated with negative emotions need to be discarded or put up as well.

5. Seasonal stuff is actually seasonal stuff. As Pagans, we sometimes like to think that gives us an excuse to have Halloween stuff out year round. It really doesn’t. Christmas lights can be kinds cool on rare occasions but those really don’t happen too often. Pack this stuff in totes labeled for the season (spring, summer, winter, fall) then pick a day each season (like solstices and equinoxes) where you pack up the stuff from the last season and bring out the stuff for the new one. This does not just apply to holiday items but even knick knacks. Some pieces may be more spring like than winter, etc. It will be like redecorating every couple of months. And, rather than going just hog wild, make each piece something meaningful.

6. Pack it away. If you can’t figure out what it says or why you have it, pack it away. You can always rotate decorations in and out as the mood strikes you or seasons change (see above). If you haven’t missed it in a few months time, feel free to get rid of it. The key is that you should not have a ton of clutter, and the things you do have visible in your home should be things that truly invite into your life the energy you want.

A word about Spiritual Clutter:

Spiritual Clutter is the overwhelming presence of spiritual items. Spiritual devotion is in the heart and mind, not a giant crucifix on the wall that just freaks the bejesus out of people every time they walk in. There is nothing wrong with expressing your faith by displaying a few symbols of it around your home. Another idea is the use of a “house altar”, an altar that is as small or as large as you would like it to be or have room for, and that expresses the spiritual beliefs held in the house hold. In ancient times, people had altars in their house to honor their household gods. This is the same principle.

It can be a small table or shelf, divided in half with a divine masculine on the right and divine feminine on the left in whatever guise you feel comfortable displaying along with any other symbols of elements or faith you wish to put on it. You should include at least 2 candles on here so that you can light them as a form of devotion or in asking for blessings or guidance.

You can also do a simple set up with just one candle representing the divine spirit as a whole. It is really your choice and can be as elaborate as you wish to make it. I usually locate my house altar in the Northwestern area of my living room, for reasons I will explain in a bit. These can also be places in the northwestern corner of your bedroom or spare room if you wish to keep them private.

Cleaning and Cleansing through Reiving:

Going through and decluttering your space goes a long way to removing negative energy and unblocking the flow of positive energy. The next step in this process gets rid of the other things that create negative energy, dirt, dust and any residual negative energy.

Reiving utilizes mundane cleaning methods and a cleansing process similar to Swifting to cleanse your space. This includes vacuuming, dusting, mopping. You need to be cleaning windows, air vents, ceiling fans, lamp and light fixtures, and anything else that has collected dust and dirt. As you do this, imagine that you are removing not only the dirt and dust but the negative energy build up around your home.

You can also use a decoction (create a tea bag of these herbs using a coffee filter and steep in some water for like 15-20 minutes; let cool then use) of herbs in your cleaning solution to heighten your cleansing power. Any herbs that purify, break hexes and curses, and protect are ideal for this, such as Agrimony, Mugwort, Sage, Clove and Cinnamon. You can also add in herbs that bring positive energy and luck into your space as well.

Once you have Reived your space, you will now go through and smudge one more time, this time in a clockwise motion, inviting love and light into your space.

Now that we have cleaned, cleansed and decluttered your space, and the energy flow has been unblocked, let us look at a technique to keep that energy moving the right way and inviting an abundance of auspicious (lucky) and positive energy in.

Feng Shui the Easy Way

I am not a Feng Shui master at all nor can I afford to hire one to come in and work their magic. I am also one of those people who get confused when you start throwing a bunch of complicated stuff at me. I really liked the concept of Feng Shui though, so I did some research and found a less complex way of making it work.

Feng Shui means wind and water. It is a system of incorporating the laws of nature and our place in it. Creating and living within an environment that we are in harmony with attracts positive, auspicious energy, referred to as Chi. The key this system are the five elements of Feng Shui and where we place these things in our environment. The five elements of Feng Shui are:

Wood, the element of growth, nurturing and versatility. You can use wooden objects to promote motivation, inspiration and passion without overwhelming your space. Its colors are greens and browns.

Fire, the element of happiness, energy, passion, honor and aggression. Its colors are reds, bright yellows, orange, pink and purple.

Earth, the element of instinct, stability, permanence, home, and wisdom. It can add a grounding, stabilizing energy to an area that is too busy or full of chaos. Its colors are light yellow, sandy/earthy tones, and light browns.

Metal, the element of communication, justice and generating energy. Too much metal can attract too much energy to an area of your home and invite disaster. Its colors are white and grey.

Water, the element of creativity emotion, networking, communication, professional opportunities and wealth. Wasted water can actually symbolize a loss of money or poor health, so leaking faucets and what not should be dealt with. Its colors are blue and black.

Now that we understand the elements, let us look at the easiest way to utilize them and Feng Shui to maximize the Chi of your space.

The simplest way is to get a compass and use it to divide your house and each room up into nine sections. Here is a chart of these sections and what each section represents: North

Each square on the layout can be referred to as a “corner”. My advice is to start with one room or even just one corner and go from there as it can be a daunting task. Here is some information on each corner to help you along:

Wisdom and knowledge (front left)

Element: Earth

Colors: black, blues and greens

Wisdom, learning, study, educational pursuits

Bookcases are well placed here

Pictures of people you have learned from or who inspire you

Place for meditation or reading

Career (front middle)

Element: Water

Colors: blues, black and brown

Affirmations of things you hope to accomplish under a pyramid

Images or symbols of things that represent where you want your career to go

Symbols of success

Helpful People/Mentors and Travel (front right)

Element: Metal

Colors: white, grays, and black

Images and symbols of places you would like to visit

People unrelated to you who can help you

People who have touched your life and bring you knowledge

Phone, phone books and business cards are well placed here

Health and Family (middle left)

Element: Wood

Colors: blues and greens

Family, friends, coworkers and distant relatives you want to stay connected with

Hang happy family pictures and memories on the wall in this corner

Physical and emotional health

Workout equipment, if you have room.

Spiritual Health and Overall Well Being (center)

Element: Earth

Colors: yellows and earth tones

This area is the culmination of all the other areas as those areas do effect your spiritual and overall well being.

If you have the space for this, you can create a center space with symbols that represent where you want to be spiritually.

If you do not have the space for this, a lead crystal hanging from the ceiling or a ceiling fan in the center of the room can work to activate the energy here.

Creativity and Children (middle right)

Element: Metal

Colors: white and pastels

This area affects the development of current and future projects and creative endeavors

Articles, photos relating to current projects

Ideas for future projects

Photos of children you are directly connect to will bring auspicious energy to this area

Musical instruments, sewing machines, pianos or any creative medium is placed well here

The place to display your own artwork

Wealth and Prosperity (far left/southeast)

Element: Wood

Colors: blues, purples, greens and gold

Money, prosperity, abundance

Keep clean and uncluttered!!

Plants, lighting, crystals and aquariums help activate auspicious energy (no dead stuff!!)

Citrine, aventurine and malachite crystals for correct energy

Check all these corners in your home to make sure that any toilets in these corners are covered and fireplaces are dealt with (more on that in a bit)

Fame and Reputation (far middle)

Element: Fire

Colors: reds, oranges, and bright yellows

Represents how the world sees you, the image you want to project

Records of achievements like awards, trophies, new clippings can be places here

Love and Relationships (far right/southwest)

Element: Earth

Colors: reds, pinks, and white

This corner in your house and every room of it represents your love life and intimate relationships

They should all be clean and free of clutter

Any heart shaped stone and rose quartz

Faceted lead crystals work well here

Counteract toilets and fireplaces in these corners

Red or pink candle lit on the new moon will activate this energy

Any symbols of love and marriage work in this corner

Dealing with fireplaces and toilets:

Fireplaces and toilets are two things that will drain positive, auspicious energy out of your space. You need to:

Keep toilet lids down.

Counteract fireplaces with citrine, quartz cluster and actual fireplace doors.

Bedroom tips:

Should be uncluttered, comfortable and relaxing

Rose quartz and small altar to your love relationship in your love corner

Mirrors and TV’s should not face the bed (invites 3rd person into your relationship)

No plants as they will pull energy away from you

No aquariums as they will pull energy away from you

Other tips and tricks:

Plants can activate energy in any corner and should be well cared for.


Can attract or repel energy

Should not be placed opposite doors, toilets, staircases, windows, beds or other mirrors

Should be hung so that the tallest person in the house does not have head cut off.

If you move or place a mirror and feel a negative change in the energy flow, rethink where you placed it.

Crystals and Gemstones:

Research uses to activate desired energy

Should be cleansed and programmed


Choose the appropriate color and scent to attract the desired type of energy

Should be cleansed and charged

Incense and Oils should be chosen by the type of energy or desired effect.


Figure out your sun sign to start with.

Each sign has correspondences like crystals, incense, colors, and such that can help to activate the positive energies of each sign or off set the short comings.

Once you become more comfortable working with astrology, you can look at what signs are in the houses of your chart that correspond to each Feng Shui corner and use that information to heighten your personal energy in each one of those corners.

I hope that this was helpful. As I said at the start of this, I had not intended on typing this up as a handout for a workshop. These are my notes and information from my own personal experience in creating my own magical living space. This really takes time and patience to make this work. Once you get it in place, though, it will be just a matter of maintaining it and smudging or Swifting on occasion to keep things in order.

The book that I recommend for creating your magical living space as an amazing reference guide is House Magic by Ariana (isbn# 0-7607-3321-x). When I first decided to Feng Shui my space, I looked at a number of books and internet sights that just confused the heck out of my. House Magic incorporates not just Feng Shui but other systems of magic to create a positive living environment. It is one of my all time favorite book and I really feel like it is a must have.


Urban Crone